How I Photograph a Wedding β My Documentary Approach
Relaxed, real, story-driven wedding photography across the West Midlands and beyond
When people first get in touch with me, they often say the same thing:
βWe just want our photos to feel real β nothing forced, nothing staged, nothing awkward.β
And thatβs exactly why I photograph weddings the way I do.
My approach is 90% documentary, 10% editorial.
That means I spend almost the entire day quietly observing, anticipating, and capturing the natural flow of everything that happens β the emotion, the energy, the people, the tiny details you might not even notice in the moment.
Below is a little insight into how I work and what you can expect when you invite me to be part of your day.
What βDocumentary Wedding Photographyβ Really Means
Documentary photography is all about truth β the honest story of your wedding day exactly as it unfolds.
No stiff posing.
No endless group shots.
No pausing to βredoβ a moment.
Just real emotion, real people, and photographs that feel like your wedding.
Itβs the hand squeeze before walking down the aisle.
The tears that arrive earlier than anyone expected.
The laughter during speeches when someone says something they probably shouldnβt have.
The chaos of the dance floor when the DJ drops that song.
These arenβt moments you can manufacture β theyβre lived, and Iβm there to catch them as they happen.
Blending In (and Why It Matters)
I want your guests to forget Iβm the photographer.
When people feel comfortable, the real moments show themselves.
I move quietly, always watching for emotion, connection, and meaning.
I donβt interrupt.
I donβt direct unless you need a little guidance.
I donβt take you away from your wedding for hours.
Instead, I work like an extra guest with a camera β someone who photographs from within the day, rather than from the outside.
This is how Iβm able to capture those intimate, blink-and-you-miss-them moments that often become couplesβ favourite images.
Natural, Unposed Storytelling β But With a Touch of Editorial class
While most of the day is documented as it naturally unfolds, you will get a few portraits together.
These arenβt staged or stiff.
No dramatic posing.
No βchin down, shoulder backβ nonsense.
Just the two of you, taking a quiet moment together, looking how you naturally look, feeling how you naturally feel.
A short, relaxed walk, some gentle direction if needed, and thatβs it.
Beautiful portraits in about 10 minutes.
Thatβs the 10% editorial β simple, refined, and real.
Handling Family Photos (The Quick & Stress-Free Way)
Even the most documentary-minded couples still want a few family photos β and they matter.
My approach keeps this part painless:
A small, intentional list of 6β10 groups
One location with good light
A helpful usher or best man to gather people
Clear, confident direction
Done in 10β15 minutes
You get the important photographs without missing the reception or feeling like youβre at a photoshoot.
The Moments You Donβt See on the Day
Some of my favourite images happen when couples have absolutely no idea Iβm photographing anything.
A parent watching from a distance.
A bridesmaid fixing a dress without being asked.
Children running through fields, chasing each other, or β in some weddings β chasing me because of a βpeg gameβ they invented.
Guests throwing their heads back in laughter.
These tiny, fleeting, human moments are the ones that shape the story of a wedding.
Theyβre the moments youβll treasure most when you look back.
Why This Style Matters
Weddings arenβt perfect β theyβre emotional, messy, loud, quiet, overwhelming, and beautiful all at once.
Documentary photography honours that.
It gives you:
Images that feel authentic, not performed
Real emotion instead of staged moments
Memories you can recognise yourself in
A record of the day you actually lived
A story that belongs entirely to you
When you look back at your photos in 5, 10, or 30 years, I want you to feel something.
Not just see something β truly feel it.
Thatβs why I photograph the way I do.
Thinking About Booking? Hereβs What to Do Next
If youβre planning a wedding and want your photos to feel natural, honest and full of meaning, Iβd love to chat.
Simply send me your date + venue through my contact form, or message me on Instagram.
I reply quickly, and Iβm always happy to answer questions or walk you through the process.
Your story deserves to be told beautifully, quietly, and truthfully β and Iβd love to be the one to tell it.